Advice for Daily Leaving

“Invitations not obligations: Our expectations of other people can be a big drain on our emotions. When we ask someone to do something, or, worse, have a belief that someone should do something and insist that he or she comply, it places a great stress on us. And the other person, nothing our anxiety and insistence that they conform to our expectations, may actually become less inclined to respond as we like.

Instead, consider everything you want someone else to do to be an invitation that the other person may or may not choose to accept. Of course, if you are an employer or a parent who is trying to ensure a child’s safety, you must have parameters and ground rules. Everyone else, however, should be released from the obligation of doing, being, living, and acting as you feel they should.”

Will Bowen, Happy This Year!: The Secret to Getting Happy Once and for All

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